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My intention for this newsletter,
if anything, is just to present the musings of a wandering woman in a
way
that will inspire you.
I'd love to hear your thoughts,
insights and understandings. deb@portagecoach.com
And I'd love to work with you
on any transition, personal or business. Just give me a call at
231-879-4178
or 877-762-4178.
Please excuse my tardiness
this month. I had planned to have this newsletter out on Monday. I seem
to be in some kind of time warp. I can't believe it's July already!
Some
of that may have to do with N. Michigan's weather this year. For
instance,
today we'll be lucky if we see 60 degrees. I'm not complaining, mind
you.
I'm not a hot-weather fan. But I do seem to be experiencing a little
bit
of seasonal disorientation this summer.
But that's all about to be
fixed the end of this month. I'm heading to Northern Ontario for
another
fishing trip. I'll be healed and whole when I get back! And there's
still
room for you. Call me!
Enough
is Enough
It has been a short path from
June's newsletter, “It Is What It Is,” to this one in July, “Enough is
Enough.” Many of you sent me some very playful spins on June's theme.
Like,
“It ain’t what it ain’t,” “It will be what it will be,” “It can be what
it can be,” etc. And one of my favorites was “Enough is Enough.”
Too often, we say, “enough
is enough,” to express our impatience and exasperation at something. As
a child, you may have heard this from your parents. Maybe you've even
said
it to your own children. As in, “Enough is enough! I've heard that from
you too often.”
But “enough” can mean to be
satisfied and feel sufficient. In the book, The Soul of Money, Lynn
Twist
says that what we choose to appreciate appreciates. That we must look
at
what's working and where we have sufficiency rather than at what is not
working and where we are lacking or experiencing scarcity. When we
focus
on where we have enough, we have the ability to contribute in those
areas.
And through contribution, we begin to appreciate even more. And if what
we appreciate appreciates, then we've strengthened our feeling of
enough.
In the condition of scarcity,
when enough is not enough no matter how much we have, we hoard and
measure
our stockpile. We become competitive. When we feel money or anything
else
we desire (love, for instance) is scarce, we never have enough no
matter
how much more we accumulate.
When we feel sufficiency, when
enough truly is enough, we collaborate with others because what we
desire
moves in and out of our life naturally. There is enough for us; there
is
enough for everyone. We have the ability and freedom to nurture others
and ourselves. When we appreciate the enough-ness in our lives, our
enough-ness
appreciates.
"Appreciation is the beating
heart of sufficiency." ~Lynn Twist
Books
On My Shelf
The
Soul of Money by
Lynn Twist. About way more than our relationship with money. An
inspiring
read!
Pilgrim
At Tinker Creek
by
Annie Dillard. This one has been on my shelf for a very long time. But
after writing about "enough," I'm inspired to pick it up and explore
again
with Dillard all the enough-ness in one small neighborhood, Tinker
Creek.
Resources
for
You
Are you thinking about experiencing
life in another country? Want more than just a vacation?
First, visit Kim Davis, at
www.extraordinary-jobs.com
Then stop by one of Kim's
recommended sites for restarting your life overseas at www.escapeartist.com
A Note About My Recommendations
I provide links in this newsletter
to products and services I am offering or I have personally found
valuable.
With some of them, I have an affiliate agreement. If you are ever
disappointed
with one of these recommendations, please let them and me know. If they
don't make it right, I will.
Peace and much love
Deb
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