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Hey All
Welcome to my Portage Newsletter.
It the last couple of months
I've had more than a few folks have asked me about the name of my coaching
business, Portage. Many did not know what Portage meant. Others thought
I might live in Portage, Michigan. So when the latest question was asked
just a few days ago, I thought it might be a good time to explain in this
newsletter and continue the celebration of my 10th year of Portage.
I'm a wandering soul with little
attachment to planned destinations. For me, it's the discovery and insight
along the way that is so much more important. So take what suits you from
this newsletter and discard what does not. I won't mind a bit. As I've
said before, my intent for this newsletter, if anything, is just to present
the musings of a wandering woman. And I do appreciate your feedback. Keep
it coming!
"My aim is not to teach the
method that everyone ought to follow in order to conduct his reason well,
but solely to reveal how I have tried to conduct my own." ~~René
Descartes
A special thanks to those of
you who have passed this newsletter on to others.
I'd love to hear your thoughts,
insights and understandings. deb@portagecoach.com
If you're anticipating a transition,
personal or business, just give me a call at 231-879-4178 or 877-762-4178.
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The
Portage
Trail
I named my business Portage
because I love backcountry canoeing and fishing. And my favorite part of
these backcountry activities is portaging from one lake to another, either
to continue my canoeing route or to find the next great fishing lake.
Portage means carrying a canoe
or boat over land to avoid a water obstacle like rapids or a waterfall
or to get from one navigable water body to another. I found the definition
a wonderful metaphor for what I do as a coach.
As a coach, I help folks navigate
their personal transitions, from where they are at the moment to where
they want to be and, at the same time, discover and deal with the obstacles
they need to go around.
Portaging generally requires
unloading the boat or canoe and carrying it and its contents over the portage
trail. If it's a portage that many have taken before you, the path can
be quite clear of obstacles and easy to navigate. On other portages a trail
must be blazed and the terrain can be very difficult.
As a coach, I do the same,
helping my clients decide what they want to take with them on their next
transition and what no longer serves them and is best left behind. I help
you find the path that others may have taken before. And if there is no
similar path, I help you blaze a new trail.
To portage efficiently, a tump
line on your pack, which goes around your forehead, and a yoke or tump
line on your canoe are valued tools. The tump line sounds awkward but with
the bearing of your load beginning at your forehead, it helps distribute
that weight evenly and efficiently down your spine. It's incredibly more
efficient than having your load begin at your shoulders. This is the way
the early voyageurs and natives managed their portages.
I guess I could have named
my business Tump Line or Yoke as a metaphor for those things that make
the Portage easier, but they're not very pretty words. You'd all be laughing
and the “yoke” would be on me. But as a coach, I do have a wealth of "tools"
to help you transition with the least amount of discomfort.
Portages can be very short
as in a few rods or meters to many miles or kilometers in length. And all
portages, by their nature, are the result of elevation changes. Either
the destination lake is higher or lower than the one you are leaving, or
the land between two bodies of water rises and falls, or, as in the case
of a river, the elevation of the river changes dramatically creating swift
rapids or a waterfall that must be safely portaged around. This results
in all portages involving some climbing and/or descending.
This is not unlike a personal
transition, although the elevation changes are emotional rather than physical.
I've discovered over the years that there are four distinct stages in every
transition. First is the stage I call Discomfort where one is reluctant,
fearful, uncertain and often reactive and edgy. The second stage I call
Going Internal but it is no less emotional as one becomes more contemplative,
protective, spiritual, and often detached and withdrawn. Can you picture
the portage trail? So far it's an uphill trek with a heavy load. In the
third stage, Exploration, we begin to feel like we have some direction.
We're beginning to crest the peak of the portage trail and we can often
look ahead instead of constantly down at our feet in order to avoid pitfalls.
We find new reserves of energy and become optimistic, confident and even
eager. This is the stage where our vision for the future begins to emerge,
much like reaching the peak of the portage trail. And the final and fourth
stage is Renaissance. We become committed and creative as everything begins
to feel possible. We move at a faster pace. On the portage trail, this
is the wonderful downhill stage where the new vista is clearly in front
of you and your load is lighter as you shift from trudging uphill to flowing
downhill.
The thing to remember about
portages, as in transitions, is that Renaissance feels like it will last
forever. But sooner or later we become restless. Then we find ourselves
looking for the next portage and the newness it holds at the other end.
"Do not go where the path may
lead, go instead where there is no path and leave a trail." ~~Ralph Waldo
Emerson
Thanks for listening and humoring
me this month. See you on the Portage.
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Peace and much love
Deb
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