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In the four years or so I've
been writing this newsletter and sharing my thoughts with you, I've
contradicted
myself more than once. That seems to be the way I best learn. If I were
to go back and read some of my past newsletters, I know I'd be saying
out
loud, "Just what is that woman talking about?" But when it's in me, it
has just got to come out. Consistency has never been my strong suit.
Change
I adore! So take what works for you, discard the rest and have
fun!
I'd love to hear your thoughts,
insights and understandings. deb@portagecoach.com
Take
The Plunge
A few years ago I was paddling
an unfamiliar series of lakes in order to access Killarney Provincial
Park
in Northern Ontario. The map said I had to portage around The Plunge
Falls.
That name alone had me on high alert. Additionally, the day was getting
late and a thunderstorm was moving in. The last thing I wanted to do
was
miss my portage and take “The Plunge.” So I was a bit like a gazelle in
lion country, listening for the roar of falls, looking for my portage
trail
and anxious about the incoming electrical storm at my back. I was using
all of my senses, constantly scanning for danger and revising my
route-to-safety
plan as my environment changed. I had the loan of an island cabin if I
could make it there before the storm so I was pushing hard and
reluctant
to stop and set up camp. But I knew I’d have to get off the water if
the
lightening started.
After about six hours on the
water and the non-stop stresses of the impending falls and storm, I
became
full of doubt. I doubted I had been right about how long it would take
me to paddle to the cabin. I doubted I knew where I was on the map. I
doubted
my ability to do a solo paddling trip like this with any kind of
proficiency,
ever. I just totally doubted myself.
I truly thought I would have
reached the cabin after six hours of paddling. And yet, I hadn't
portaged
The Plunge Falls yet. And then, there it was! No, not the falls. I saw
the island and the cabin that was my destination for the night. I
stared
at the map in disbelief! I had taken the Plunge and not even known it!
The Plunge Falls is still on
the map I use today. And even though I've paddled this trip several
times
since, I have yet to encounter those falls. I don't know if this is an
error or a mapmaker’s idea of a joke. I just know that I have a new
perspective
on the old saying, “Take the plunge.”
1. Whatever the plunge
might be, it is never as bad as we anticipate.
2. When you're focused
on something as an impending threat, you lose your orientation, even if
you have a map.
3. The language we use
to describe something can create more concern than the thing itself.
I made it to the cabin before
the storm. I made it to the cabin without flying over the falls. That
night
was one of the most beautiful electrical storms I've ever seen. And I
got
to experience it high and dry with warm food and drink in my belly.
Coach's Challenge:
Here's a bit of a research
project for you. I've given you enough hints. Find The Plunge Falls I
apparently
went over and email your
research
details to me. Please put "The Plunge Falls" in your email subject
line.
If you've found the right falls, I'll give you a free coaching session
and and a big fat mention.
A
Few Quotes
“Society is like a lawn, where
every roughness is smoothed, every bramble eradicated, and where the
eye
is delighted by the smiling verdure of a velvet surface. He, however,
who
would study nature in its wildness and variety, must plunge into the
forest,
must explore the glen, must stem the torrent, and dare the precipice.”
~Washington Irving
“I would feel more optimistic
about a bright future for man if he spent less time proving that he can
outwit Nature and more time tasting her sweetness and respecting her
seniority.” ~Elwyn Brooks White
“Any intelligent fool can make
things bigger, more complex, and more violent. It takes a touch of
genius
-- and a lot of courage -- to move in the opposite direction.” ~Albert
Einstein
“I have an existential map;
it has 'you are here' written all over it.” ~Steven Wright
Resources
for
You
A Good Read
I
Don't Know Why I Swallowed
The Fly: My Fly Fishing Rookie Season by Jessica Maxwell was a gift I
could
not put down once I started reading. While describing her new-found
passion
for fly fishing, Maxwell also reflects on time, space, nature, her
relationship
with her father, and the "fishiness" of a stretch of river water. For
years
I've been telling my friends that fishing is as good as, if not better
than, sex. Maxwell gets to this point too.
A Note About My Recommendations
I provide links in this newsletter
to products and services I am offering or I have personally found
valuable.
With some of them, I have an affiliate agreement. If you are ever
disappointed
with one of these recommendations, please let them and me know. If they
don't make it right, I will.
Peace and much love
Deb
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